Does She Actually Like You?

Let’s face it - trying to figure out if a girl might like you back can be pretty f***ing hard sometimes - doubly so when you’re autistic like me. Sometimes they’ll make it obvious, but other times I find myself agonizing over how to interpret their texts & the conversations I have with them.

It’s obviously easy to get emotional about this stuff - that’s kind of the point - but you can’t afford to decide that a woman likes you… just because you really like her.

On the flip side, you could be missing signals from a woman who really wishes you’d ask her out already. It’s so important to know - and be able to identify - which are which.

I gave some thought to what I’ve seen work for this - and what I’ve seen fail - and I’ve noticed a few useful patterns you can apply to get a pretty solid understanding of whether you might have a shot with that particular girl.

Here are three straightforward “checks” you can use to figure out if she’s genuinely interested in you - not just as a friend, but as a potential romantic partner.